Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Après Birthday: it's like après ski but with presents (#2)

29 is the birthday that keeps on giving. My friend Emily visits Maine every year with her family and is an obvious candidate to help me with activity #2. She brought me this back from her latest trip:

"I thought it was a perfect representation of your lobster goal, and our shared love of booze"

There were other après birthday activities at work this week. Sunday was a dark day as I'd been away from the office for several weeks and I had a heavy, nervous, and overwhelmed feeling about returning on Monday. It reminded me a lot of how I felt the night before going back to school after summer holidays. It was part apprehension (what has changed, what have I missed, will people still like me etc.) and part bone idle laziness (vacation > work).

I trudged into the office at 7am to find my door decorated, my office full of gifts, belated birthday cards, welcome back messages, a card celebrating being in my job for one year and a homemade cake from the person on my team least likely to ever bake a cake or commit an act of kindness. My team was actually happy to have me back, was telling me I was missed and know me well enough to have played some pretty funny pranks including a mousetrap in my cupboard, a vodka bottle in my desk and removing a wheel from my chair so I fell over when I sat down. It made me feel really special.

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